Game of love 376- WHY MEDITATION IS NECESSARY!

WHY MEDITATION IS NECESSARY!   

Please read below from a Medical and scientific Prospective. 

From the time of our birth till death the heart works continuously.

Everyday, the heart pumps 7000 litres of blood, of which 70% blood is pumped to the brain and the remaining 30%  to rest of the body.

The blood is pumped through veins/arteries which are about more than 70,000 km long.
The strength required to pump the blood up to 42ft high and the weight of 1 tonne is generated by the heart everyday through its work.

We take rest when we are tired but if the heart takes rest for 4-5 mins, we would have to rest forever.

*How does the heart work so efficiently and effectively?*

The heart works effectively, because it follows a discipline. In normal conditions, the heart takes 0.3 secs to contract (systole) and 0.5 secs to relax (diastole). So 0.3+0.5=0.8 secs are required by the heart to complete one beat (1 cardiac cycle).That means *in 1 min, the heart beats 72 times which is considered as a normal heart beat.*

During the relaxing phase of 0.5 secs, the impure blood travels through the lungs and becomes 100 % pure.

In some stressful conditions the body demands more blood in less time and in this situation the heart reduces the relaxing period of 0.5 secs to 0.4 secs. In this case, the heart beats 82 times in 1 min and only 80% of blood gets purified.

On more and more demand, the relaxing time is further reduced to 0.3 secs, then only 60% of blood is purified.
Thus 20-40% of impure blood is pumped in the veins/ arteries. These impure components (cholesterol/lipid) get deposited on walls of the arteries/veins and thus the elastic nature of the veins and the arteries is lost. In this way, they become plastic in nature.

After some time, due to the above conditions the veins/arteries become rigid. Now if a blood clot travels through the veins/arteries (which in normal conditions get easily passed away due to the elastic nature earlier) get blocked and resists blood flow in that area. This results in a blockage which further results in a *Heart Attack.*

From the above discussion, we can easily realise that the main reason for the heart problems is the increase demand of blood by the brain and body.
When the activity of the brain is stimulated, it demands more amount of blood, than that of normal conditions.

*To stimulate the activity of the brain, 25-30% of the diet we take is responsible, whereas the remaining 70-75% is due to overthinking, emotions, attitude, memory and other processes of the brain.*

So, those who want to keep their heart working effectively for a long period of time, should protect themselves from - worry, anger, sadness, negative emotions, sensitive behavior, stress and a constant fast paced life. 

To protect ourselves from the above few areas, *there is no MEDICATION available!*
So, the only option is 
*MEDITATION*.

It's said that: *SPIRITUAL HEALING IS ONLY THE TRUE HEALING*

Sikhs meditate through the Naam mantra of Vaheguroo to conquer their minds desires, emotions, pressures and stresses. 

Guru Arjun Dev Ji Says, "Giaan a(n)jan naam bi(n)jan bheae sagal seegaaraa."
I have applied the healing ointment of spiritual wisdom to my eyes (mind); meditation on the Naam mantra, the Name of the Lord, is my food. These are all my decorations.

Vaheguroo! 



Game of love 375- YOUR WORD (BACHAN KARNA)

YOUR WORD (BACHAN KARNA)

Back in the days, the Gurus Sikhs had a very strong character and were respected very highly for it. If a sikh was witness to any injustice, their word was taken as Gospel and believed without any doubt or question. One of Guru sahib Ji's 52 commands was, a sikh will never lie or turn a blind eye as a witness.  

Today our word and character as humans has become very weak. we give our word and never see it through. Then we say chal koyna (oh never mind, it's ok). Back in the days, our word was our character, whatever we said, we made sure it was actioned. We lived and died by our word. No one would want to get on the wrong side of a sikh and upset them, Incase they spoke some harsh words and were forced to follow them through. Their zubaan (toungue/word) was everything. 

"Those who have one thing in their heart and something else in their mouth, are judged to be false." Bhagat Farid Ji

The above shabad is beautiful. Guru sahib ji also talks about kissing the feet and face of those, who have recognised the truth through the love of Vaheguroo's meditation. 

Today we make false promises, we fail to acknowledge other Sikhs with a fateh (sikh greeting) or acknowledge via text, email, social media etc, we are very poor with our punjabi mentality of being punctual. The list goes on. Guru sahib says, 'The one who respects time, I call them a true human.'

Our Mann (mind), Bach (word) and Karam (actions) all need to be pure. This will make us True Khalsa (pure ones), that Guru ji created. 

It's easy to be false and fake. Genuine truthful human beings will always be respected and stand out above others. 

Our word (bachan) remains pure only through meditation on Vaheguroo's name. Be true to yourself, true to your Guru and true to others. Keep your word! 

"They are so brave; they are men of their word."
Guru Arjun Dev Ji 1563-1606

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 374- IGNORANCE

IGNORANCE 

"The shabad (Vaheguroo) dispels the spiritual ignorance within and through the True Guru, one finds peace."
Guru Amardas Ji 1479-1574

One morning, when our new teacher of 'Introduction to the Rights' entered the classroom, the first thing he did was to ask the name of a student seated on the front bench:
“What is your name?”
“My name is Harjan, Sir.”
“Leave the classroom immediately and I don't want to ever see you in my class again!” screamed the teacher.
Harjan was bewildered but, when he got hold of his senses, he got up quickly, collected his belongings and left the classroom.

All were scared and angry but none did or said anything.
“Well…”, said the new teacher, “whom do the enacted Laws serve?”
We were all afraid but slowly gained confidence and began to answer his questions.
“So that there is order in society”.
“No!” the teacher responded.
“To accomplish them."
“No!”
“So that the people who wrong others pay for their actions?”
“No! Does nobody here know the answer to this question?"
“So that there is justice”, a girl said timidly.
“At last! That’s it... so that there is justice! And now, what is the use of justice?”
All began to feel uneasy with such a rude attitude but followed on answering:
“To safeguard human rights...”
“Well, what more?” asked the teacher.
“To differentiate right from wrong... to reward the good...!”
“Ok... not bad, however,... answer this: Did I act rightly when expelling Harjan from the classroom earlier…?”
All were quiet, nobody answered.
“I want a decisive and unanimous answer!”
“No!" we all replied in unison.
“Would you say I committed injustice?”
“Yes!”
“And why did nobody do or say anything about that then? Why do we have or need Laws and Rules, if we don't have the will needed to practice them? Each and every one of you has the obligation to complain when you witness injustice. Remember, each and every one of you!  Do not stay quiet… never again! Now, go and call Harjan back,” he said staring at me.

That day, I received the most practical lesson ever in my entire Law course.
When we don't defend our Rights, we lose our dignity, and dignity is never negotiable! Gurus Sikhs should never turn a blind eye! They should always remain righteous! Don't tolerate others being mistreated in front of you! This is the true nature of a spiritual Gursikh! 

"This dark age is the knife and the kings are the butchers, righteousness has sprouted wings and flown away." Guru Nanak Dev Ji.

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 373- IMMOVABLE FAITH

IMMOVABLE FAITH

This story took place three years ago. A sikh soldier was celebrating the martyrdom of Guru ArjunDev ji. He was meditating on Vaheguroo's name, whilst preparing and serving langar (food). Just then, a Hindu officer approached the soldier and very rudely asked, "What are you doing here?" The soldier explained the story of Guru ArjunDev Jis martyrdom, with great love.

The Hindu officer very rudely spoke for the second time and said, "How is this possible? No human can sit on a burning hot plate." The officer continued being very rude and kept questioning the soldier. He kept saying, 'This is a joke, it can not be true.'

The soldier got very upset in listening to this and went and sat on a burning hot plate, where the langar (food) was being prepared. When witnessing this, the officer burst out in to tears and quickly rushed to get the soldier off the plate. He fell at his feet and repeated, "You Sikhs are amazing people. Your faith is immovable! You are very pure at heart and you can not accept the disrespect of your Guru." The soldier lifted the officer and embraced him with a hug.  

If we have faith in Guru ji, nothing will come near us. Guru ji will always be our saviour and protect us. Gain your faith in Guru Ji! 

"The hot winds do not even touch those who are protected by their Guru."

Guru ArjunDev Ji 1563-1606

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 372- IDENTITY

IDENTITY

Daas used to be mona (cut hair) many years ago, until Guru sahib ji took pitty on me and blessed me in their divine sanctuary. Whilst sat there, the speaker on the stage was talking about Guru Teghbahadur Jis sacrifice for the Hindu faith.

Cutting a long story very short, the Hindu hill kings were being converted to Islam. They were given an option to convert or to bring a saint, who will sacrifice his head, in order to save their faith.

The Hindus approached the ninth Guru, Guru Teghbahadur ji and requested for a saint to sacrifice their head. Gobind Rai (Guru Gobind Singh Ji, son of Guru Teghbahadur), at the age of 5 spoke and said, "There is no greater saint than you father, to give your head and save the Hindu faith". Guru ji accepted and they were beheaded. Guru Ji was named, 'Hindh di Chadar' (the saviour of Hinduism).

Guru Ji's head was brought back to Gobind Rai. They asked how many Sikhs were present? Bhai Jetha replied, "There were many sikh families but I couldn't recognise any. They all looked like Muslims and Hindus."

Gobind Rai responded by saying, "I will create such a Khalsa, that will stand out in thousands. All my khalsa will keep their kesh (hair) and both males and females will wear tall turbans."

When hearing this story, I went home, looked in the mirror and saw myself as a None sikh person, with the surname Singh standing at the mirror. From that day onwards, I did ardaas for Guru Ji to bless me and never looked back since. Guru ji took immense pitty.

I was faced with many difficulties and problems, whilst keeping my hair but If we have faith in Guru Ji and ardaas, they will pull us through and never let us down. Guru Ji loves us more than we can ever comprehend.

Guru sahib blessed his Sikhs with sardaaree (turbans). Only highly 
respected, rich people were allowed to wear a turban back in the days. Guru ji said, "All my sikhs will wear a turban and no one will have the courage to stop them."

"Purify what is impure and let the lords presence be your religious tradition. Let your total awareness be the turban on your head."

Guru Arjun Dev Ji 1563-1606

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 371- DISCIPLINE

DISCIPLINE 

"One can not be called a sikh without physical/spiritual discipline. One will suffer at every door."

Rehitnama, Amrit kirtan

Most of the 'Game Of Love' posts have been based on spiritual discipline (rehit), we have not really spoke much on physical discipline. 

Physical discipline is as important in a Sikhs life, as spiritual discipline. They both work hand in hand. One can not be complete without the other. Physical discipline protects and holds the spiritual shabad (word/mantra) within the mind. 

Guru sahib has made it clear, without Amrit, Guru, Sangat and spiritual/physical rehit (discipline) we can not be complete and liberate our soul. For a sikh, the Guru's way is a must!

The minimum discipline for a sikh is 5Ks (panj kakaar) through an Amrit Sanchaar ceremony. Many baptised Sikhs keep additional disciple i.e. Bana (attire) and a preparation of their own food. 

Every army has it's own uniform and discipline. We are the army of God (akaal purakh ki fauj), so in the same way, we have ours. 

Many people argue saying, 'only the mind needs to be pure and we don't need to accept the Amrit.' It always makes me ask, 'so was Guru Gobind Singh Ji's mind not pure for them to create the blessed Amrit (blessed nectar).' Amrit means, to bring the dead back to life (shedding light on the ignorant mind). Guru ji created the Amrit, blessed it to 5 singhs and then begged for it from them (panj). 

If we are meditating on Vaheguroo's name, we will only truly be blessed and feel the full affect of it, when we go to the panj (5 singhs) and beg for the name in the blessed presence of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Maharaj Ji. 

Guru Amardas Ji Says, "Jath sath thap pavith sareeraa har har ma(n)n vasaaeae."
Abstinence, truthfulness and self-discipline are obtained, and the body is purified; the Lord, Har, Har, comes to dwell within the mind.

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 370- SECRET WITHIN

SECRET WITHIN

There is a secret within us all. Many people search outside for those things that will answer their souls questions. However, contemplating on the innermost you and through sincere effort and blessing, you will find that all the answers to your questions are found within. 

We all ignore the fact that death can take us at any time. No one knows when they will breathe their last breath. 

Lately, I have experienced many young deaths. There one minute and gone the next. We always think the elders will pass away first. We live as though we will never die. When our time comes, we will have to depart. Who can save us from leaving this body, when death calls. No one will come anywhere near helping us. 

We spend most of our life, studying, working, collecting money, buying land, buying many houses, buying many cars and living luxurious life styles. When our time is up, none of this is going with us. We will leave it all behind. We put our mind and body through so much stress and pressure to earn all we have, yet it will all be left behind. We will not even get the space of a bathroom in the house we spent many years earning for.

Guru sahib ji says, 'we have a life as a diamond, yet we waste it for mere shells.'

The secret within is Gur Amrit Naam. Meditation on this Naam is the only substance which will fulfil our soul and answer all our minds desires. Through this Naam we will be blessed with respect, love and knowledge of this world and the spirit world. 

Naam, Gurbaani and the loved blessings (asseesaa) of Gursikhs, is the only gem which will support our soul on the other side. 

"Deep within the self is the secret, but the fool looks for it outside."
Guru AmarDas Ji 1479-1574

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 369- COMPANY

COMPANY

"Saintly people continually peck at the divine name, like swans pecking at pearls in the ocean."

Guru Amardas Ji 1479-1574

The company of saintly and good people is sought by all. Seek the company of those who make you feel happy, comfortable and peaceful. Soon, you will find that you become like them and enrich your own daily feelings and experiences. 

Meditation on Naam is what develops saintly people. Guru sahib says, 'when we remember Vaheguroo with love, in single minded concentration, in that instants we become saintly.'

Saintly people never let go of the Naam, as they are aware, it's only the naam that will purify their mind from negativity and guide them through this terrifying world ocean. 

We will always become like our company, whether it's positive or negative, so it's very important we seek the company of like minded spiritual beings. Our sangat (company) will always pull us through in the end. 

"The treacherous and terrifying world ocean is crossed over, in the boat of the saadh sangat (spiritual company)." Guru Arjun Dev Ji

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 368- WISE WORDS

WISE WORDS 

Bhai Vir Singh Ji's wisdom on Naam Meditation. 

His was another era in which he studied Panjabi, sanskrit, braj, persian, urdu and English. He wrote countless books including classics like Sundri and Vijay Singh and took on the right wing Hinduvata who were determined to break Sikhs from their independent and unique Sikhi. 
Here are a few of his words on Naam .. 

When this eternal, pure light meets with the spark of light within you, at that moment enlightenment takes place. Your life, as you know it ceases. This pure light transforms you. Wonder and gratitude fill every pore of your being.

If this union does not take place, then you continue to live like an extinguished lamp, low in spirits and powerless to rise above worldly desires. This is the cause of pain and suffering. So train your mind to always remain in the presence of the Divine.

Think, when you remember someone, is your attention not that person? Attention is the essence in this world. When you give something your total attention, the work gets accomplished. But when the attention gets diverted, the work suffers. When a student gives his attention to his education, he gets educated. Similarly, if you focus your attention on the Divine and its attributes, you too will reap the benefits. So raise your consciousness above the seen world and focus your attention on the Divine.

When you begin to feel the love of the Divine within your mind and body, know that grace has been bestowed. This is naam.

Dyed in the love of the Divine you will see the Divine pervading everywhere. This is naam.

When your attention turns from the seen world, towards the Divine world, that is also naam.

Naam is not mere repetition.

Naam is repetition, recitation, remembrance and sensation.

Naam is life!

Naam is grace!

Naam is the divine light meeting the light within you.

Naam is love, devotion, ecstasy and rapture.

Naam is when in your remembrance of the Divine, you feel a heavenly sensation on your tongue.

Naam is when all the cells in your body get immersed in the love of the Divine and the flow of blood through your veins resounds with the sensation of the Divine.

Every pore, every cell rejoices. At that moment, you are truly awake. You are truly alive.
To know naam; to understand naam, you must have faith. Faith, that the Divine is all-pervading. Faith, that in the seen and unseen world, it is the Formless One that permeates. Faith, that invisible to the naked eye, the Pure Light of the Divine is in each and every being. Faith, that the Divine is eternal strength. Faith, that the power and ways of the Divine cannot be known by mortals, for the Divine is immortal.

Guru Nanak Dev Ji Says, "Naam vihoonaa mukath kiv hoee."
Without the Naam, the Name of the Lord, how can anyone find liberation? 

Vaheguroo! 



Game of love 367- QUARREL

QUARREL

"Do not fall in to a quarrel by calling someone bad."

Guru Nanaj Dev Ji 1469-1539

Quarrels bring grief to all those involved. No quarrel can solve a problem. Avoid such negativity and look for a positive solution to every situation you face. 

When we quarrel with others, we always assume we are right through our ego. The funny thing is, quarrels are usually very trivial and can normally be resolved without getting heated. Our minds are so focussed and trained in this taste of ego, that it has become natural for us to quarrel and argue. We have virtually accepted this way of life for resolving problems. We have made it the norm. 

The other day, I witnessed two people quarrelling. They were having a real go at each other. When asked, what they were quarrelling about and calming them both down, it ended up as a nothing issue. 

We usually get heated over small issues, blow them out of proportion and end up winding each other up. When we are given time to relax, calm down and re-think the whole situation, the result and outcome is always different to the way we handled it with a heated mind. 

Experiencing this argument looked very bad from an outsiders point of view and looked worse than what it was. Just remember, this is how we look in front of others when we quarrel. 

We have to learn to remain calm, when someone wants to quarrel with us. Calm them down, listen to exactly what they have to say and come to a solution, whilst calm. Try not to wind them up, as anger when coming together always makes situations worse. This may mean walking away from the situation or asking to speak about it later. Relationships take many years to build, yet seconds to destroy. 

Meditation on the Naam, always replaces angry thoughts in to extremely positive thoughts and actions. 

Guru Angad Dev Ji says, "I am not good; no one is bad." So who are we quarrelling with. 

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 366- SWEET SPEECH

SWEET SPEECH 

"My dear lord and master, my friend, speaks so sweetly."

Guru Arjun Dev Ji 1563-1606

In this shabad, Guru ArjunDev Ji goes on to say, 'I have gone on to test God but he never hurts anyone by speaking harsh words. God struggles to speak bitter words and never looks at anyone's negatives, as all is the one God. This is the natural way in which Vaheguroo (God) purifies and saves sinners.'

When we are in the remembrance and contemplation of God, 24/7 with every breath, our conscious mind will never let us speak bad about anyone or look at anyone's negatives, as the love and virtues of God will shine through us and naturally we would see the good in all with every breath. Life would be in the form of a mirror. That what we experience on the inside, would shine forth on the outside and all our virtues would be seen in everyone we come in to contact with. 

Also, the same happens in the opposite way; When we are negative, narrow minded and very judgemental, we would treat everybody else in the same way and not trust anyone. This is why Guru Ji says, 'practise the virtue of humility and sweet speech, as this pierces the hearts of all and one would only be offered love and respect back in return.'

Sweet speech consists of speaking softly, speaking in humility, love, respect, and speaking through good manners. Most people are judged through the words they speak. The spirit is connected to love, so most sane people react positively to virtuous, sweet speaking human beings.

The way one walks, their body language, the way they write, the look in their eyes, aura, energy and everything about them will become warm and sweet. All the above is developed through constant meditation on Vaheguroo's name, as meditation replaces anger, harsh words, ego and balances the mind. 

"The one who is sweet and dear to the lord is loved and dear to all, all others come and go in vain." Guru Amardas ji. "Jo har ka pyaaraa, so sabna ka pyaara."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 365- LOYALTY

LOYALTY 

"A dog never abandons the home of his master."

Guru Teghbahadur Ji 1621-1675

As Sikhs we can learn from anything and everything. We just have to be open minded and relate everything to God. This usually happens when we meditate and contemplate on Vaheguroo's name. 

Guru sahib ji has mentioned many animals in Gurbani and related them with God. Just as the line above does. 

Dogs are very loving and loyal animals, if treated with love, affection and taught correctly. There is no animal like them for their obedience. In the same way a Sikh should be loyal, faithful, obedient and ever loving to Vaheguroo (God). 

A short story comes to mind, In which turned my love, loyalty and faith closer to Guru ji.

The power of love and a teaching of loyalty to our master (God/Guru)!

Hachiko was a Japanese Akita dog in japan. His master was a Professor. He walked to the train station everyday with his master and went home. Hachiko always came back to collect the Professor daily. The Professor had a heart attack at school one day and never returned home via the train. Hachiko the dog, travelled to the train station every single day for 10 years, at exactly the same time to collect his master but sadly he never met him ever again. 

He died daily in his longing and remembrance and eventually after 10 years of yearning and waiting in love, he died and was buried by the side of his master. 

Are we as loyal to our master (Guru ji)? If yes, does it show in our spiritual development, character and physical appearance. 

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 364- LOVE FOR GURSIKHS

LOVE FOR GURSIKHS 

The humility of Guru Ramdas Ji is immense. 1534-1581

"O Gurmukhs, O my friends and companions, give me the gift of the Lord's Name, the life of my very life.
I am the slave, the servant of the Guru's Sikhs, who meditate on the Lord God, the Primal Being, night and day. Within my mind and body, I have enshrined love for the feet of the Guru's Sikhs. O my life-mates, O Sikhs of the Guru, O Siblings of Destiny, instruct me in the Teachings, that I might merge in the Lord's Merger."

Bapu Ji (father, Guru ji) shared something amazing yesterday. He said, 'we can measure someone's love for Sikhi and Guru Sahib, by seeing how they treat other Gursikhs and Sangat.'

Gursikhs belong to Guru Sahib so if we have love for Guru Sahib, we will automatically have love for everything related to Guru Sahib. Especially his Gursikhs. 

Reminds me of something someone else had said earlier, that we should kiss the feet of even a dog that lives near a Gursikhs house! But sometimes we can't even treat Gursikhs with any love, forget about the dog. Love is very distant. We find it very easy to hurt and disrespect Gursikhs (Guru's children).

If we hurt the feelings or inflict any form of pain and suffering upon anyone, let alone Guru's Sikhs, Guru Sahib Ji will not be happy with the way we have conducted ourselves in our Pavittar (pure) form. We become a stain upon our fathers (Guru Gobind Singh Ji) turban. 

We have lost our love for Guru Sahib Ji. This is the reason, why we don't have the same love for Gursikhs anymore. We don't live our lives according to the Gurbaani lines quoted at the top of the page. 

"Gurbaani Banneeai" ang (page) 304. Guru Ramdas Ji says, 'become Gurbaani, the walking figure of Guru Jis perfect and spiritual teachings.'

Can we truly say, we are taking steps to become like Gurbaani? Are we true to our hearts and Guru Ji? Do we love Guru's Sikhs, even if their views are slightly different or contrary to ours? Have we lost our patience and failed to develop Guru Ji's loving virtue of tolerance? DO WE SEE GOD IN ALL? Do we think, we have more of a hold on Gurmat (Guru's teachings) than other Sikhs of the Guru? Do we think, we have the right to behave in an anti Gurmat way, if we feel others have disrespected our way of thinking? Some points to ponder on! If we answer the questions above honestly, they should give us an idea of how close we actually really are to Guru Ji. 

"All Gursikhs actions should only be according to Gurmat."

The sign of true Gursikhs love will be, when they recognise and do saanj (look at views shared) of Gurmat and ignore the contrary. Views shared by Gursikhs will always outweigh views contrary at around 90%-10%. 

Guru Nanak Dev Ji Says,  "Saanj kareejai guneh kaeree shhodd avagan chaleeai."
Let us form a partnership, and share our virtues; let us abandon our faults, and walk on the Path together.

Guru Arjun Dev Ji - "Hoe eikathr milahu maerae bhaaee dhubidhhaa dhoor karahu liv laae."
Come and join together, O my Siblings of Destiny; dispel your sense of duality and let yourselves be lovingly absorbed in the Lord.

"Har naamai kae hovahu jorree guramukh baisahu safaa vishhaae."
Let yourselves be joined to the Name of the Lord; become Gurmukh, spread out your mat, and sit down together. 

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 363- POWER

POWER

"I respectively bow to those who have power, yet remain humble."

Bhai Gurdas Ji 1551-1636

Power can destroy or heal. Power can turn the mind away from the needs of the soul. Those people who have power yet attend to the needs of the spirit, realise what true power is. When you have true power, always remember your humility towards others.

Power can come in many forms. Some people have the power and wealth of money. Some people have the power of status, authority and positions. 

Everyone is powerful in their own way. Guru sahib ji tells us, the most powerful human being is the one who remembers God (Vaheguroo). If we don't remember God, all worldly power and wealth is worthless. We need to remember, all we have is Gods (Guru Jis). They can give and take back at any time. 

The God loving human being, will always remain humble, even if they have all the wealth and power in the world. 

The aura and energy of Naam, will always keep them radiant and powerful in both this world and the next (spirit world).

Let's forget fighting for worldly positions, as in the end these positions will be filled by others, after we depart. We will only be remembered, if we have loved, respected and genuinely helped others, whilst having the power of these worldly positions. 

Guru ArjunDev Ji Says, "All wealth, power and the eight miraculous spiritual powers are in the supremely sublime essence of Naam." 

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 362- PARENTS

PARENTS

"O son, why do you argue with your father? It is a sin to argue with those who nurtured and raised you."

Guru Ramdas Ji 1534-1581

In this day and age, it has become the norm to disrespect our elders and get away with it. 

We have started to think they should do as we say and not the other way round. Parents also have adopted this philosophy and have started to let children get away with disrespecting them. 

Equality has hit another level. We want to be equals with everyone and everything they do. 

When daas was growing up, whatever our parents said was final, no questions asked. In this way, love and respect stayed intact. 

We have forgotten about all that our parents have done for us. They brought us in to this world, nurtured us, clothed us, educated us and fed us. The question is, what haven't they done for us? 

In reality, we can not pay our parents back for what they have done for us. Without them, we wouldn't be, who we are today. 

Please remember this the next time we have a petty falling out with our parents. 

Guru sahib ji has given parents the respect of God, as they gave us our first teachings. Let's remember all the good they have done for us and guarantee we will never upset them again. Their short falls come no where near. 

Ego and anger is only controlled through meditation, which creates a balance within. 

"The name of The Lord is the medicine; it is like an axe, which destroys the diseases caused by anger and egotism." Guru ArjunDev Ji

Unconditional love is the only substance we can repay our parents back with.

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 361- THIRD GURU'S FIRST SERMON

THIRD GURU'S FIRST SERMON

"O Guru Amardas Ji, your glorious virtues are so sublime; your praises belong only to you."

Bhatt Bal Ji ang 1396.

Sree Guru Amar Das Jee’s First Sermon

When Sree Guru Amar Das jee became Guru, historians have recorded his first words to the Sangat:

“If someone treats you badly, bear it. If you bear it three times, the fourth time Vaheguroo will be on your side. The aggressor will be given such a punishment that he will not be able to save himself, regardless of all his efforts. Vaheguroos grindstone (of justice) may turn very slowly, but the grain is ground very finely (the justice is perfect).”

Then, Guru jee read the 21st PauRee of Sree Asa Kee Vaar “Jit saeviai sukh paeeai so sahib sadaa samaaleeaai…”

He then continued,

“Be kind to everyone. Having pride over anything is not noble.

Consider the company (immoral relations) with another woman/man to be like the company of a snake or a murderous elephant. Never even by mistake go into bad Sangat (company).

Humility is the greatest weapon. Never speak badly.

Those who praise themselves are always lost. The path of dharma is the abandoning of slander (ninda).

Don’t spend or eat more than you need to. Also, work just as much as you need to. Don’t do anything above and beyond the need for it.

Leave behind fakeness and hypocrisy. A life of false show is always a painful one.

If someone is a Sikh of the Guru, listen and obey them.

Loving another woman/man, even if he/she is a devotee of God (bhagtaNee) is a relationship which will result in loss not gain.

Go to and meet the Shabad of the Guru. Do not go somewhere where the Guru is forgotten.

Eat when you are hungry. Don’t fill what is already filled. But don’t abandon food either. Sleep when you feel very sleepy. Don’t sleep without feeling tired. Don’t pain your body.

Listen to the stories of the Guru. Sing Shabads and listen too. Don’t’ speak falsehood.

If someone is forgetting about the Guru, try and remind them. Speak to them from the heart. If they don’t listen, then it’s up to them.

Take the Guru’s words to heart. Give (the Guru) at least a tenth of your earnings. Keep the company of good people and serve those you encounter.

Before putting anything in your mouth, say Vaheguroo. Vaheguroo will bless it.
Those who have day and night japped Vaheguroo, and left their ego, they are the truly high and good ones.

Controlling one’s desires is Dharam. One who does this is jeevan mukath (liberated while alive).

One who is a beloved of God cannot ever remain bound by any restraints. He is free. He is above all tradition, custom, fortune, luck, and delusion."

Guru Ramdas Ji Says, "Naanak har kathhaa sunee mukh bolee guramath har naam pareechai jeeo."
O Nanak, I listen and chant the Lord's Sermon; through the Guru's Teachings, I am fulfilled by the Name of the Lord.

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 360- GURU

GURU

"Leaving a side the philosophers stone in the form of the True Guru, people go on searching the materialistic philosophers stone."

Bhai Gurdaas Ji 1551-1636

A young child went to a Gursikh and stated, that no matter how hard he tried to keep Gurbani in his heart, he just could not understand or keep it there. He stated, that his mind was not a bucket but a strainer, which let everything pass through and did not contain the meaning of Gurbani.

The Gursikh said "Let us try an experiment. Here is a strainer and here is some water. Now pour a bucket of water through the strainer." The child did this and said, "See, the water was not contained, it just passed through. My mind is just like this." The Gursikh said "Do it once more," so he did, and still the water passed through the strainer. The Gursikh said, "Do it ten times at least." The child did, and at the end of this experiment he said, "See, water still passes through, no matter how many times and how many buckets we pass through it." The Gursikh said, "Look carefully at the strainer and see if there is any thing different." The child did, and his eyes were fillled with tears and he said, "Yes, I see the difference now. The grimy dirty strainer is now shiny and bright, like never before."

The Gursikh said, "My son, this is what Gurbani does for you. It cleans your mind and even if you do not realise it, it still slowly cleanses your mind and protects you from the five vices. The more you recite Gurbani, your mind will not only become shinier but become like the bucket itself, which will not only become clean but hold the meaning of Gurbani in your heart." The child smiled and felt he had received the best example of the power of Gurbani ever.

Gurbani is that detergent that cleanses the mind of its dirt. The more we rub our mind with Gurbani, the cleaner it will get. Dhur kee Baani is full of Amrit. Whoever utters Baani of Satguroo, literally drinks Amrit. 

"Gurbaani is the light to illuminate this world; by his grace, it comes to abide within the mind." Guru Amardas Ji. 

Vaheguroo!


Game of love 359- UNIVERSAL SIKHI!

UNIVERSAL SIKHI! 

When I read this, it made me feel very proud at how Guru Ji himself is spreading spiritual Sikhi in to the wider world. Also, how passionately, devotionally and lovingly non punjabi's are accepting this beautiful way of life. I had to re-share it! 

http://www.sikhnet.com/news/chilean-sikh-converts-inspire
Chilean Sikh Converts Inspire

by SikhNet

Rai Singh (Chile): 
I didn't have a good role model, so when I found out about the Gurus I said "Wow. That's something I can relate to."

Mukhande Kaur (Venezuela):
I was the only Sikh in my city, and everyone was shocked. Then I started to share with them what it is to be a Sikh. It's an attitude of being real, and having a spiritual path.

Sat Sansar Singh (Chile):
I noticed how people acted after Gurdwara during langar... everyone was so happy. It was a creative mood that made me happy. So I thought there has got to be something in this...

Charan Sev Kaur (Chile):
Sikhism is not well known in Latin America, so I wear bana every day as a seva, to spread the word, and people are always asking me about it. They respond very positively. 

Ram Krishan Singh (Argentina):
When I heard simran I felt something. So I started to explore Gurbani, and Guru Nanak took my heart, and He gave me the key to God's door.

Sat Pavan Kaur (Chile):
When I went to my first Gurdwara, and bowed my head for the first time my heart opened. It was a flow of loving energy which made me cry. 

Guru Ramdas Ji Says, "Jo Gursikh Gur saevadhae sae pu(n)n paraanee."
Those Sikhs of the Guru, who serve the Guru, are the most blessed beings.

Vaheguroo! 



Game of love 358- SHORT LESSONS

SHORT LESSONS

Read this the other day. Made a lot of sense. So much wisdom in such few words.

"Make spiritual wisdom your molasses, and meditation your scented flower; let good deeds be the herbs." 

Guru Nanak Dev Ji 1469-1539

I've  learned ...That  the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I've  learned ....  That when you learn how to love, it shows (God).

I've  learned ....  That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.

I've  learned ....  That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I've  learned ....  That being kind is more important than being right. 

I've  learned ....  That you should never say no to a gift from a child. 

I've  learned ....  That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help them in some other way.  

I've  learned ....  That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.  

I've  learned ....  That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I've  learned ....  That simple walks with my father around the block, on summer nights, when I was a child, did wonders for me as an adult.

I've  learned ....  That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I've  learned ....  That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.

I've  learned ....  That money doesn't buy peace.

I've  learned ....  That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've  learned ....  That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I've  learned ....  That to ignore the facts does not change the facts. 

I've learned ....  That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I've  learned ....  That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I've  learned ....  That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter and wiser than I am.

I've  learned ....  That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile..

I've  learned ....  That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them. Perfection is only seen through love. 

I've  learned ...  That life is tough, but I'm tougher and stronger. 

I've  learned ....  That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

I've  learned ....  That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I've  learned ....  That I wish I could have told my Mum that I love her one more time, before she passed away.

I've  learned ....  That one should keep their words both soft and tender, because  tomorrow they may have to eat them.

I've  learned .....  That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I've  learned .....  That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.

I've  learned ....  That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all  the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it. 

I've  learned ....  That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Guru Amardas Ji Says, "Giaan vihoonee pir mutheeaa piram n paaeiaa jaae."
She is utterly lacking in spiritual wisdom; she is abandoned by her Husband Lord. She cannot obtain His Love.

Vaheguroo!



Game of love 357- ONE BREATH

ONE BREATH

"There is only one breath, we are all made from the same clay."

Guru Ram Das Ji 1534-1581

We all breathe the same air. We share this planet. We are all made from the same elements. Remember this when your mind begins to differentiate between people. We are all made from 5 elements of earth, water, air, fire and ether (sound). 

This clay is created by the one but has been painted in many different forms, says Bhagat Kabir Ji. They say, 'As you see yourself, see others. Only in this way shall your soul be saved.'

This clay will be destroyed in the end, yet the soul will continue its journey. 

So why waste time. Remember God and end the souls yearning. Go and meet with those who yearn for spiritual fulfilment and are content within. It's the only place you will experience true love. 

The world is false, most are out there for themselves. The spiritually uplifted are only out to conquer their mind, free their soul and encourage others to do the same. 

"Servant Nanak begs for the dust of the feet of those Sikhs, who chant the naam and inspire others to chant it."

"Adopt such a guru so you don't have to adopt another again. Dwell in such a state, that you shall never have to dwell in any other again. Embrace such a meditation, so you don't have to embrace any other again. Die in such away, that you never have to die again." Bhagat Kabir Ji

Vaheguroo!