Game of love- TRUE FAMILY

TRUE FAMILY

Khalsa (baptised Sikhs) are more than just warriors of Akaal Purakh (timeless one/God). To each other, they're family. They all have the same mother (Mata Sahib Kaur ji and father (Guru Gobind Singh Ji. They are from the same village (Anandpur Sahib) and they have all given their heads to the Guru, in order for the blessing of Amrit (baptism). 

We should strive to call all baptised Guru's Sikhs: veerji (brother), bhenji (sister), mataji (mother) and pittaji (father), as it evokes and maintains a sense of unity and family within the Khalsa Family. Amrit is thicker and more powerful than blood and Amrit runs through the veins of all AmritDhaaree (baptised) Sikhs. So it's important to talk to every Guru's sikh with the appropriate family title. In today's day and age, we are more attached to our blood family and less in love with our true family (AmritDhaaree baptised Guru's Family), this is why we suffer. When Guru Ji said, "Sukhee basai morro parivaaraa" (my family will live in peace and happiness), he was talking about none other than the khalsa (pure ones). 

Guru Ramdas ji says, "The Guru loves all of his Gursikhs equally well, like friends, children and siblings."

There was more prem (love) between Gursikhs back in the days, as they accepted each other's differences. We have less kamaaee (spiritual wealth) these days. This is why we look for negatives and differences in each other. It's a hukum (command) of Guru Ji to acknowledge another Gursikh with a fateh (Sikh greeting). Today we avoid the fateh. Guru Ji's mukh (face), always faces the one who kills their ego, attains love and shares the loving fateh first. 

Bhagat Kabir Ji says, "I would rather be cut in half by a saw, rather than have you turn your back on me. Hug me close and listen to my prayer."

Guru Gobind Singh says, "The Khalsa is my complete image, I dwell in the khalsa, khalsa is my chief organ, I am always with the khalsa, khalsa is my best friend, my mother and father, my praise and honour, my treasure, my loving family, my mind, body, soul and breath, my life, faith and deed, my pure Guru, my intellect, knowledge and spiritual warrior, khalsa is in my every hair and khalsa is the army of God (Vaheguroo)."

Guru Ji gave his Khalsa the utmost respect. let's also give it back to every Khalsa (Amritdhaaree Gurus's sikh we see or meet). 

Vaheguroo!

Game of love- PARENTS

PARENTS

True story...

There was a young boy and his mother. The boy realised his mother only had one eye, as he got a little older. 

He went to school and he thought all his friends mothers were pretty but he felt his mother was ugly. He told his mother to stop dropping/picking him up from school. He would not let his mother go to any of his school functions, as he was growing up. He told her never to go anywhere with him, as he was ashamed of her. He would not let his mother open the door, when his friends called for him. He started to miss treat and disrespect her for he thought his mother was ugly. 

He told his mother, he was leaving home, when he got a little older. He never gave her the address, as he didn't want her to follow him. He then got married and had children. 

Ten years later, his mother turned up at his house, as she was depressed and her eyes couldn't bare not seeing her only son. Someone had given her the address. Her grandson came to the door and screamed, when saw the women. Her son came running to the door and never asked how she's been in ten years but started shouting at her saying, "Why don't you leave me alone, you scared all my friends and now you're scaring my family." She cried and said, 
"I've  seen you now son, I'm going."

Five years later, there was a primary school function in his mothers village, in which the son was invited too. He came, saw his mums house and got greedy thinking, he could claim some of her house and land. He went in, looked around and saw no one. His neighbour came and said, "It's been ten days since your mother passed away but here's a note she has left you." He thought great, at least she won't follow me around anymore. He sat down and opened the note. The note said, "Dear son, I know there is a function in our village and you will come. I am seriously ill. By the time you get here, I may not be alive. I just wanted to tell you, when you were younger, you had an accident and you were left with one eye. I didn't want you to be looked down on so I gave you my eye. I will always love you my son." 

The son could not believe how badly he treated such a compassionate women. He placed his head in his knees and cried in frustration and regret. 

We occasionally miss treat our parents. We can never repay them for what they have done for us. We are totally in debt to them. Their love is unconditional. They brought us in to this world. They nurtured us, clothed us, educated us. We should always serve our parents and always be there for them as their support. 

Bhai Gurdas Ji Says, "Forgetting lacs of benefactions (of mother), the son becomes disloyal and sets him self at logger-heads with his parents. Rare is any obedient son like Saravan, who was most obedient to his blind parents."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love- DRUNKEN ELEPHANT

DRUNKEN ELEPHANT

A man went to the market and he sees a stall with no products on it. He asks the stall holder, "What are you selling?" The stall holder says, "I'm selling something which will change your life. They are invisible ghosts, who will do all you work for you free of charge. Anything you need done, housework, cleaning, DIY, cooking, driving.. anything, this ghost will do it for you." 

The man was shocked and said, "Wow, I have so many things which need doing at home. I could do with this ghost, how much does it cost?" 
"It's free" said the stall holder, "However there is a catch. Make sure you keep it busy, because if it has nothing to do, it will kill you." The man was worried but was sure he could keep the ghost occupied. He took it home and set it doing different things. The ghost would do them in a flash and await the next command. 

The man carried on giving the ghost chores. However, the ghost was finishing them so fast that the man became worried.
He turned to his wife and said, "What shall I do? Soon the ghost will be idle and kill me." His wife said, "Just put this ladder against the side of the house and tell the ghost to keep climbing up and down it. Then, when you need the ghost for something, just call it and when that job is done, send it up and down the ladder again." The man was relieved and was able to keep the ghost busy.

The ghost is our mind... When it is occupied or engaged in work, it doesn't head towards the panj chor and Paap (5 evils of the mind).. But when left idle it will destroy us. An idle mind is the devils workshop (behlaa mann, shehtaan da ghar). So just like this man, we must keep our mind engaged in the routine of Naam meditation, Gurbani (reading Guru's words) and Seva  (selfless service up and down the ladder). Keep that going and keep yourself busy and the mind doesn't have time to concoct or build any weapons to damage you with. In this way, the mind finds happiness, joy, balance, true love, peace and contentment and dwells in the fourth and highest state of Sehj (truth, tranquility and bliss). 

Guru Nanak Dev Ji says, "The intellect of the mind is like a drunken elephant." 

Vaheguroo!

Game of love- SEVA (selfless service)

SEVA (selfless service)

There was a sikh, who was voluntarily washing the dirty utensils, after pangat (congregation) had eaten at Harmander Sahib (golden temple). He was doing a great job. 

Another poor Sikh man came towards him and tried to help. The Sikh man washing, abruptly said, "Move away, this is my Seva" (selfless service). The poor sikh man, whilst humbly meditating said "Satbachan" (true say) and walked away meekly. 

Seva should kill our ego. There are ways and means of speaking to people. The Sikh man should have embraced him and said, "This is not my Seva it's Guru's Seva, of course, we will do it together my brother." The Sikh man, who walked away, was a more spiritual soul. 

Where there is Seva without Naam, there is ego. Nothing is ours or mine, all is Guru's (Gods). The story above illustrates that. Any form of Seva should make us meek and humble. If it is not, we are seriously doing something wrong. If it doesn't change our character or lower our state of mind, we need to take a step back and re think why and how we are doing the Seva. 

When Seva is assisted by a Meditating mind, this is when the Seva takes its full effect and destroys the mind's negative thoughts. It humbles the mind and purifies the being through love. 

Guru Amardas Ji Says, "centre your awareness on Seva and focus your consciousness on the true word (Vaheguroo). Subduing your ego, you will find a lasting piece and your emotional attachment to maya (worldly pleasures) will be dispelled."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 400- ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT 

I dreamed that I went to sachkhand (gate of truth) and Vaheguroo (God)
was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with workers.

Vaheguroo stopped in front of the first section and said, 

"This is the Receiving Section. 
Here, all petitions to Vaheguroo in prayer are received."

I looked around in this area and it was terribly busy, with so many 
Workers sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.

Then, we moved on down a long corridor, until we reached the second section. 

Vaheguroo then said to me, 
"This is the Packaging and Delivery Section.
Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them." I noticed again, how busy it was there. 
There were many workers working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth. 

Finally, at the furthest end of the long corridor, we stopped at the door of a very small station.

To my great surprise, only one worker was seated there, doing nothing. 
"This is the Acknowledgment Section," Vaheguroo quietly admitted to me.
He seemed embarrassed. "How is it that there is no work going on here?" I asked. 

"So sad," Vaheguroo sighed. 
"After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments". 

"How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked. 

"Simple," Vaheguroo answered. Just say, "Thank you, Vaheguroo."

"What blessings should they acknowledge?" I asked.

"If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% people of the world. If you woke up this morning with more health than illness ... You are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day."

It is our selfish nature to ask for what we want, yet not thank the giver once received. The beauty is, Vaheguroo will still not stop giving. He just asks for us to remember him, because he loves us. 

Guru ArjunDev Ji says, "Vaheguroo is the great giver. There is no limit to his giving. His countless warehouses are filled and are overflowing. Oh foolish mind, why have you forgotten him and not thanked him."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 399- WASTED

WASTED

There was once a women, sat on the edge of a river bank. She sat there for many hours picking up stones from the shore and throwing them in to the river. A young boy approached her saying, "I've been watching you for many hours now and you are lovingly, in the same motion, throwing stones in to the river. What's going on, why are you doing that?" The women replied, "I am only 25 years old but yet, I have wasted many years without remembering Vaheguroo (God). Every stone I throw, represents each breath of Naam (Vaheguroo) I have wasted throughout my life."

Guru Amardas Ji says, "With each and every breath, he constantly remembers Vaheguroo in meditation; Not a single breath passes in vain." 

This is our state today. We spend most our life practicing rehit (physical discipline) without meditating on Naam yet forget that Guru Ji's command is not to even waste a breath of Naam meditation. Has Sikhi become a ritualistic practice? The answer is, physical and spiritual discipline go hand in hand. 

Guru Ramdas Ji says, "Each and every breath that escapes me without Vaheguroo's meditation, that breath is useless and corrupt." We ignore this command as Sikhs. 

Are we really the spiritual Sikhs that Guru Ji created. We will only gain Khalsa Raj, (rule of the pure), when as a Panth (family's path) we understand the above message. Every Khalsa has to purify their mind. In this way the world will effortlessly recognise Guru Ji's Khalsa (pure Sikhs). The defect is in us, not the teachings. They are and will always be pure. 

In Amrit Kirtan Guru Ji Says, "When my Khalsa remains pure, I will give them my all. When they stray from the teachings, I will not be there for them."

Vaheguroo! 

Game of love 398- HAIR (kesh)

HAIR (kesh)

True story!! 

There was a family of 4, mother, father, son and daughter. The father passed away due to natural causes. 

A few months later the mother said, "Our house doesn't seem like a Sikh household anymore." The son asked, "Why?" 
"Your dad used to have a turban and thus we were recognised as the house of Sikhs."

The mother made a request to her son saying, "It's the 300 year birth of the Khalsa (pure), can I go and be blessed with Amrit and wear a turban so at least our house will be recognised as a Sikh household?" The son accepted. She asked, "Will you keep your hair too, as our hair gains and contains spiritual energy and I will do an ardaas (prayer before Guru)?" He accepted. 

As he grew his hair, his friends started mocking him saying, "Shall we buy you a razor?" Eventually, he got very upset and went to the barbers. As he walked in, he lost all sight in his eyes. He went back out and his sight returned. He did this three times and on all three occasions, the same occurred. 

He realised that his mother had done ardaas in front of Guru ji and it had been accepted. This was the reason in him losing sight. He walked away and went on to be blessed with Amrit (sikh baptism) later. 

Moral; If a Sikh loves his hair so much, how much must our Guru love kesh (hair). The ardaas is very powerful once surrendered In front of Guru ji through faith and belief. The prayer will never be failed by Guru ji. This is a prayer between 2 spirits and the binding glue is love. 

We need to realise who we really are and not who we want to be. The ones we want to be will never support us, but our Guru will be our support through thick and thin. 

Faith is support! Guru is love! Vaheguroo is power. 

Guru Ramdas ji says, "Oh Nanak, I have no support, the True Guru has saved me."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 397- BHAI TARU SINGH JI

BHAI TARU SINGH JI

A Muslim man came to Bhai Taru Singh and said, his daughter has been kidnapped by the commander of village Patti. Bhai Taru Singh promised him, the Singhs would bring her back. 

Bhai Taru Singh spent a lot of time meditating and practicing the teachings of Guru Ji. He was a man of his word. He fulfilled his word given to Raheem Bakhsh (Muslim man) and returned his daughter. The commander was killed in the raid. 

On hearing this Zakhrya khan (commander of village pahoola) was distraught and sent his soldiers to arrest Bhai Sahib ji. Zakhrya asked Bhai Sahib Ji to accept Islam, he would be freed and given all the riches he could imagine. Bhai Taru Singh declined. Zakhrya asked his men to cut Bhai sahibs hair, when trying, the scissors broke but Bhai sahibs hair would not be cut. Eventually Zakhraya asked a cobbler to remove the scalp from his head. 

Bhai sahib promised Zakhrya he would die from his slippers. Zakhrya got a very bad headache later and stopped passing urine. No physician could cure him, eventually it was Bhai sahibs slipper that cured him. The urine would only pass when hit on the head by his slippers. 22 days later Zakhrya passed away and Bhai Taru Singh breathed his last. 

Bhai sahib meditated through the torture for 22 days, with his mind balanced and at peace within. 

This is the respect Bhai sahib had for his hair (symbol of Guru Ji). Today we don't take 2 minutes to remove our hair. We pay barbers to cut our hair and watch them step all over it. Bhai Taru Singh preserved our faith and honour by giving his life, today we've sold it at the barbers shop. 

Vaheguroo! 

Bhai Sahib Ji showed above, Sikhs are compassionate, righteous, faithful, loving, tolerant, honourable, live by their word and most of all love and meditate on Vaheguroo's name. 

Rehitnama Bhai Desa Singh. 
"The hair, moustache and beard are created within Gods order. How can those who violate their natural form by cutting their hair ever be accepted by Vaheguroo." 

Game of love 396- AMRIT (baptism)

AMRIT (baptism) 

Before the birth of Dr. Surinder Singh; Subedar Harbachan Singh and Mata Tej Kaur had given birth to ten children but all ten died very young. 

Dr. Sahib’s mother was a very Gurmukh (blessed) soul and despite all her children dying, she remained firm in her Sikh faith. If she ever felt sadness, she would go before Sree Guru Granth Sahib Ji in total humility and express her deepest feelings and then after would accept Guru Sahib’s hukam (command) and be satisfied. Sometimes though, she would ask her husband how long this difficult time would last? Why all her children would die? Gurmukh Piaaray (Gurus beloved) Bhai Harbachan Singh would say that the children born in their home were bhagats (saints) from their last lives. They would take birth only to receive amrit and then, when they were blessed by Guru Sahib, they would leave for SachKhand (highest state of spiritual truth). For this reason, he said, she should not feel sad. 

We have to accept the blessed nectar of Guru Ji's Amrit to be liberated. Without it, we will suffer in reincarnation. 

Amrit Kirtan states, "The 1st discipline of a sikh is to accept the Guru's Amrit." 

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 395- THE LIVING GURU (Guru Granth Sahib Ji)

THE LIVING GURU (Guru Granth Sahib Ji) 

Lately, Sikhs have faced many atrocities towards their Spiritual Guru (GGSJ). Why do the Sikhs treat Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji with so much respect? Below is a shabad by Guru Arjun Dev Ji, which states the importance Guru Ji plays within the lives of Sikhs. 

"Pothhee paramaesar kaa thhaan. 

This Holy Book is the home of the Transcendent Lord God.

Saadhhasa(n)g gaavehi gun gobi(n)dh pooran breham giaan. 

Whoever sings the Glorious Praises of the Lord of the Universe (Guru Granth Sahib Ji) in the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy, has the perfect knowledge of God.

Saadhhik sidhh sagal mun lochehi biralae laagai dhhiaan. 

The Siddhas and seekers and all the silent sages long for God (Guru Granth Sahib Ji), but those who meditate on Him are rare.

Jisehi kirapaal hoe maeraa suaamee pooran thaa kokaam. 

Only to that person, unto whom my Lord (Guru Granth Sahib Ji) and Master is merciful - all his tasks are perfectly accomplished. 

Jaa kai ridhai vasai bhai bha(n)jan this jaanai sagal jehaan ||

One whose heart is filled with the Lord (Guru Granth Sahib Ji), the Destroyer of fear, knows the whole world.

Khin pal bisar nehee maerae karathae eihu naanak maa(n)gai dhaan ||2||90||113||

May I never forget You God (Guru Granth Sahib Ji), even for an instant, O my Creator Lord; Nanak begs for this blessing."

This Shabad makes it clear in how important GGSJ is to the Sikhs. We treat Guru Ji as our living Guru, our spiritual guide, which unites us to Vaheguroo (God). No Sikh in the world, whether baptised (Amritdhaaree) or not can tolerate any form of disrespect towards GGSJ. 

GGSJ is the embodiment of our Ten Masters/Gurus, (Dhasa Gurooaa Ki Dhayhee athe Joth) as mentioned in the ardaas (Sikh prayer). GGSJ is the light and soul of our Ten Gurus. GGSJ has the teachings to purify man kind, through spirituality and meditation. GGSJ purifies the mind and character of every single human being on the planet, if understood, lived and practiced. GGSJ is the complete way of living. 

Our fifth Guru (Guru Arjun Dev Ji), slept on the floor, whilst GGSJ throned upon a manja (bed). Guru Ji understood the value of the ocean of spiritual wisdom (GGSJ). Sikhs have sacrificed their lives in the honour to protect our living Guru. The more we spiritually and physically serve our Guru, the more blessings we receive from Guru Ji. 

NO SIKH CAN TOLERATE GGSJ EVEN BEING SLIGHTLY DISTESPECTED! We live and die by the teachings of our Guru! 

Please read all of this perfect shabad below by Guru Arjun Dev Ji, which explains the importance our Guru plays within our lives. 

"Sa(n)th janahu mil bhaaeeho sachaa naam samaal ||

Meet with the humble Saints, O Siblings of Destiny, and contemplate the True Name.

Thosaa ba(n)dhhahu jeea kaa aithhai outhhai naal ||

For the journey of the soul, gather those supplies which will go with you here and hereafter.

Gur poorae thae paaeeai apanee nadhar nihaal ||

These are obtained from the Perfect Guru, when God bestows His Glance of Grace.

Karam paraapath this hovai jis no haae dhaeiaal ||1||

Those unto whom He is Merciful, receive His Grace. ||1||

Maerae man gur jaevadd avar n koe ||

O my mind, there is no other as great as the Guru.

Dhoojaa thhaao n ko sujhai gur maelae sach soe ||1|| rehaao ||

I cannot imagine any other place. The Guru leads me to meet the True Lord. ||1||Pause||

Sagal padhaarathh this milae jin gur ddit(h)aa jaae ||

Those who go to see the Guru obtain all treasures.

Gur charanee jin man lagaa sae vaddabhaagee maae ||

Those whose minds are attached to the Guru's Feet are very fortunate, O my mother.

Gur dhaathaa samarathh gur gur sabh mehi rehiaa samaae ||

The Guru is the Giver, the Guru is All-powerful. The Guru is All-pervading, contained amongst all.

Gur paramaesar paarabreham gur ddubadhaa leae tharaae ||2||

The Guru is the Transcendent Lord, the Supreme Lord God. The Guru lifts up and saves those who are drowning. ||2||

Kith mukh gur saalaaheeai karan kaaran samarathh ||

How shall I praise the Guru, the All-powerful Cause of causes?

Sae mathhae nihachal rehae jin gur dhhaariaa hathh ||

Those, upon whose foreheads the Guru has placed His Hand, remain steady and stable.

Gur a(n)mrith naam peeaaliaa janam maran kaa pathh ||

The Guru has led me to drink in the Ambrosial Nectar of the Naam, the Name of the Lord; He has released me from the cycle of birth and death.

Gur paramaesar saeviaa bhai bha(n)jan dhukh lathh 

I serve the Guru, the Transcendent Lord, the Dispeller of fear; my suffering has been taken away. 

Sathigur gehir gabheer hai sukh saagar aghakha(n)dd 

The True Guru is the Deep and Profound Ocean of Peace, the Destroyer of sin.

Jin gur saeviaa aapanaa jamadhooth n laagai dda(n)dd ||

For those who serve their Guru, there is no punishment at the hands of the Messenger of Death.

Gur naal thul n lagee khoj ddit(h)aa brehama

There is none to compare with the Guru; I have searched and looked throughout the entire universe.

Naam nidhhaan sathigur dheeaa sukh naanak man mehi ma(n)dd 

The True Guru has bestowed the Treasure of the Naam, the Name of the Lord. O Nanak, the mind is filled with peace."

No Sikh can tolerate the beadbi (disrespect) of our Poora (perfect) Guru! 

Vaheguroo! 

Game of love 394- CHARACTER

CHARACTER

There was an elderly sikh man, at the train station, waiting to catch his train. The man fell in to deep meditation, whilst waiting for his train. The train had just arrived and the queue was very long. Most people boarded the train but nobody could get past the singh, as he was engrossed in the ras (taste) of Naam meditation. 

A police officer had seen the line was not going any further and the Singh was holding it up. He went to the singh and told him to move on. The singh did not hear his request. The police officer then slapped him across the face, which threw the singh completely from his state. The Sikh man humbly apologised and boarded the train. This was witnessed by a Hindu person. 

The next day, the same Hindu person was going for a walk and all of a sudden, he heard some screaming. He turned around and saw nine men chasing one women. He then saw the same old Sikh man run past him with a latthee (stick). The Hindu man followed the Singh and witnessed him beating the nine gunday (bad people) with his latthee). They were all left on the floor, asking for forgiveness from the old Singh. 

The old Singh took the top layer of his dastaar (turban) off and covered the girl. The Hindu man then approached the Singh and said, "You got slapped by one police officer yesterday and apologised, as though you were scared." 
The singh replied, "Sikhs are never scared. We have already died and given our head to our Guru. I was wrong in that situation. I was holding up a queue, as I fell deep in to meditation. It was my fault."

The Hindu person touched the Singh's feet and embraced him with a hug and said, "If you are like this, what must your Guru be like?" The Hindu person adopted the path of Sikhi, after witnessing this humble, compassionate and righteous act. 

All power comes through faith and meditation! 

Guru Arjun Dev Ji says, "He alone is called a warrior, who is attached to Vaheguroo's love in this age. Through the Perfect, True Guru, he conquers his own soul and then everything comes under his control."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 393- LIFE!

LIFE! 

Bhagat Kabir Ji once went to a village, where he met a young friend. Bhagat Ji said with love, "Naam Japla!" (meditate on Vaheguroo's name). The young boy said, "I'm only young, these are my days to enjoy myself."

Bhagat ji came back to the village 25 years later, saw the same boy and said, "Naam Japla!" This time the man quietly uttered, "My kids are young! I want to see them grow old and support them, I'm too busy with life."

Bhagat ji came back to the village many years later, sees the same man and says, "Hun ta Naam Japla" (come on, mediate now). The man, who is still not bothered responds, "What is the point now, I can't see with my eyes, I'm deaf from the ears, my body is shaking. I can't physically do it."

Bhagat Ji comes back to the village two years later and sees a bull In the village. He approaches the bull and says, "Hun Japla" (what about meditating now). The bull lowers his head and a tear drops from his eyes. The bull was the same man reincarnated. 

We spend all our lives making excuses, running away from faith and spirituality (our only true support in life). We'll never know, when we will breathe our last breath. 

Sikhi is ecstasy, love and bliss. Please don't waste any more years of your life. 

Guru Ji wants young energetic Sikhs, who are focussed and have immense energy to spread the treasure of Guru Ji's wisdom. 

Become that sikh! 

Bhagat Kabir ji says in the same shabad, "When the summons come from Vaheguroo (God), the mortal departs leaving behind his wealth and mansions."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 392- SUTHRA SHAH 5

SUTHRA SHAH 5

Suthra Shah was singing Guru Ji's hyms one day, as he was walking towards the Gurdwara Sahib Ji (Gurus House) to meet Guru Ji. The Sikhs were sick of Suthra, as he was always getting them in to trouble and exposing their hypocrisies. They all got together and made a plan. "When Suthra comes to meet Guru Ji, we'll ask him for darshnee bhetaa, which he will not have, as he is very poor." This was their way of getting him back. Darshnee bheta is a gift of money or something special one brings with them to meet the ocean of spiritual wisdom (Guru ji). 

They asked Suthra! He started crying and said in a sad voice, "I was left on a hay stack and Guru ji took me in. I am nothing without Guru Ji! Guru Ji is my all." They apologised and said, "Sorry you can't go in." Suthra begged them with his head on their feet but they wouldn't let him in. 

Suthra walked away and came back an hour later with a full sack of some sort on his head. "What is this?" asked the sikhs. 
"This is sugar for Guru Jis Langar" (a place for all to eat as equals when coming together in the Gurdwara). They had no choice and let him in. 

Suthra put the sack down in front of Guru Ji and started doing parkarma (circling) and matha tek (prostrating) around it. 

The Sikhs raised their voices in anger, "There he goes again being stupid. He should be prostrating to you Guru ji but he's prostrating to a sack of sugar. Tell him Guru ji." 
"What are you doing Suthra?" asked Guru Ji. "Guru Ji, this sack has blessed me with your divine vision (Darshan), that's why I'm prostrating to it. I confess! I lied also, I can not afford sugar so I filled the sack with sand to get past your Sikhs. Please forgive me Guru ji." Guru Ji grabbed Suthra with love and took him to their chest and said, "All my Sikhs should have the love and thirst for their Guru, just as Suthra does." 

Suthra was very dear to Guru Ji. Guru ji loved him like a spoilt innocent child. 

Children are very innocent! We have to purify our mind through meditation and become an innocent child (eeyaanaa) of Guru ji. 

Bhagat Naamdev Ji says, "He is in love with Vaheguroo, like the young child, who loves his mother."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 391- SUTHRA SHAH 4

SUTHRA SHAH 4

One day, a sikh was reading Rehras Sahib Ji da paath (evening prayer) in Darbaar Sahib (Gurus sanctuary). Every time he completed a line, Suthra would shout, "Thinoo kee" (what's it got to do with you). The sikh reciting the paath was getting very annoyed at what he was experiencing. 

He went to see Guru Ji and made a complaint about Suthra. Guru ji asked for Suthra and an explanation from him. Suthra said, "Guru ji, your wisdom is so uplifting and beautiful, there is so much to take away from your teachings but this sikh had no focus on your baani (Gods word) at all. His concentration was elsewhere. He was always thinking about what others were doing, hence me asking,thinoo kee. This was the reason Guru Ji." Guru Ji smiled and told the sikh to stay focussed whilst reading the teachings and to live and build the character of a true spiritual Sikh. 

Suthra was a very blessed soul and always right in his judgement. He didn't like any form of ritualistic practice. All his teachings were through humour. He was probably the most hilarious sikh of Guru Ji's times. 

Are we focussed when reading prayers and meditating or are we just going through the motions like the Sikh from Suthras story? We don't want to be labelled in the category below, as Guru Amardas Ji has done. 

Meditation will bring focus, love, concentration and balance to the mind. It will reduce thought for us to be more focussed with prayers and life in general. 

Guru Amardas Ji says, "The blind and ignorant perform all sorts of ritualistic actions, they are in love with duality."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 390- SUTHRA SHAH 3

SUTHRA SHAH 3

One day, Guru Ji was doing katha (giving spiritual wisdom) in Darbar. Suthra Shah was sat crossed legged at the front of Guru Ji's Darbar (sanctuary). All of a sudden, Suthra stood up and turned his back towards Guru Ji. At this point, the Sikhs had enough of Suthra and thought he had gone too far now. They started shouting at him saying, "Have you gone mad? you have turned your back towards the most spiritual master in the universe." 

Suthra said, "I was listening to baani (the teachings), you were not! Guru Ji's words were very harsh and powerful. I was getting many slaps on my face, which I could not handle so I wanted to take the rest on my back. It was getting too painful to bare." At hearing this, the Sikhs went very quiet and sat down. 

Guru Ji's words are very powerful. We are getting slapped by Guru ji all the time but the mind has become so lazy and impure, that we force ourselves to ignore the teachings that are going to liberate our soul. 

Guru Amardas Ji says, "They do not serve the True Guru and in the end, they regret and repent over and over again. They are cast in to the womb to be reincarnated and rot over and over again."

Find faith in Guru Ji! We don't want the above to be us! 

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 389- SUTHRA SHAH 2

SUTHRA SHAH 2

Guru sahib Ji was blessing the sangat (congregation) with a divan (teachings). Bhai Suthra was serving Guru Ji by chaur Sahib (ceremonial whisk). 

A sadhu (Hindu saint) was sitting in the sangat. The sadhu had black dust applied to his body and face. This is a ritualistic sign for very spiritual people of some faiths. 

Suthra caught his eye and bagan to pull silly faces at him by sticking his large teeth out. When the sadhu saw this, he got very angry and ran towards Suthra and started hitting him with a brush he carried. Suthra quickly grabbed Guru Jis feet. At this point, the sadhu stopped. 

The sadhu said, "Guru Ji, your Sikhs are not spiritual and are very rude." He explained exactly what happened. Guru ji responded by addressing Suthra, "Suthra is this true?" Suthra replied, "Hanji, he has black dust rubbed on his face and body. He is tricking the world of his saintliness yet the pulling of my face actioned him to anger. He is not even spiritual, never mind being a devout saint."

After hearing this, the sadhu grabbed Guru Jis feet and said, Dhan Guru, dhan thuhade Sikh (blessed is the Guru and blessed are his Sikhs). From that day onwards, the sadhu adopted sikhi. 

Today we wear Guru sahib Ji's kakaar (5-Ks), bana (attire), Guru Jis dastaar (turban), are we sure we are not living life like the sadhu above? Are we only pure and holy on the outside or are we pure and saintly on the inside too. 

Purity of the mind, only comes through living the Gurus teachings by mediating with every breath and adopting their virtues to build a saintly/soldierly character. Any act adopted without Naam is a ritual. 

Guru Arjun Dev Ji says, "the religious rites, rituals and hypocrisies which are seen are plundered  by the messenger of death, the ultimate tax collector."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 388- SUTHRA SHAH

SUTHRA SHAH

Suthra Shah was a great devotee of Guru Hargobind Sahib ji. He lived on to serve our most amazing tenth Guru (Gobind Singh ji). Bhai Sahib ji had a great humour. All his teachings came through his humour. Guru Sahibaans had immense love for him. 

Suthra was found on a pile of hay, after being abandoned by his family. He was abandoned, because he had a black mark on his forehead and his teeth were very big. Most people looked at this as bad luck in those days. Guru Sahib took him in. Guru Ji's Sikhs always complained that Suthra was very mischievous. Guru sahib ji changed his name from khuthra (dirty and ugly) to Suthra (pure within). 

One day, a complaint was made to Guru Ji by their Sikhs, that Suthra is swearing at them. Guru ji said, "Call Suthra right away." Is this true Suthre?" 
"No Guru Ji, they are lying said Suthra." 
The singhs replied, "Suthra has even started lying now."

Suthra asked, when and what he said. The Sikhs named each and every exact moment. Suthra said, "Oh yes I remember, it's true. Guru Ji these are my Sikhs not yours. Ask them what shabad (teachings) you recited at rehras prayer yesterday." No answer from the Sikhs. The Sikhs embarrassingly replied, "Suthra is wrong for saying we are not your Sikhs Guru Ji." 
"They remember my bad shabads (words) and not your beautiful teachings of wisdom. what does that make them Guru Ji?" Laughingly responded Suthra. Guru Ji embraced Suthra tight to his chest. 

This is our state today! We remember all the false teachings, gossip and slander of the world, yet have no clue about what our Guru is saying to us or teaching us how to live. We will struggle through life without Guru ji. 

Guru Nanak Dev Ji says, "That carefree Vaheguroo can not be appraised; his real value is only known through the wisdom of the Gurus teachings."

Vaheguroo! 

Game of love 387- WIND

WIND

The wind is blowing 
through every home.
Some windows are broken
whilst others 
Remain closed.

The manmukhs (mind followers) look outwards 
at the homes of others. 
Surveying the damage
their foundations feel stronger.

But only a fool
looks at others.
Opening their windows
they invite the wind.

The Gurmukh locks  
the latches tight,
sitting within 
so far from the wind.

The wind is blowing 
through every home.
Some windows are broken
whilst others 
remain closed.

Look within yourself, don't look outside, you will suffer. Live by practicing Guru Ji's teachings and you will remain untouched. 

Guru Arjun Dev Ji says, "The hot winds do not even touch those who are protected by their Guru."

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 386- SOUL

SOUL

"The body shall turn to dust, and the soul shall fly away."

Guru Nanak Dev Ji 1469-1539

The soul never dies. The body is finite, the soul is connected to the infinite. As such, do not fear physical death, as it merely indicates a new chapter in your soul's journey.

Every being has a soul/spirit but only the humans can liberate their soul. Guru ji calls us all his soul brides, whether we are male or female. God/Guru doesn't look at gender. We are all seen as souls on a journey. 

Guru ji guides us to meditate with every breath so we can remember Vaheguroo (God) in our final breaths and be liberated. Guru ji says, we are extremely engrossed and entangled to the materialistic world and we are always thinking and worrying about the past and future. We have failed to slow down and live in the present (now). Our inner voice (mind) is always leading us a stray and running wild at all times.

Bhagat Trilochan Ji says, if we remember our wealth, women, children, property etc  in our last breaths, we will be reincarnated as a serpant, prostitute, pig and ghost.

We have been given this life form to liberate our soul. Let's nurture our soul with the correct nourishment. Meditation, Gurus teachings and always doing good deeds is food for the soul. If our soul receives its correct food, its coming and going in this world will come to end. 

Listen to your Guru, not your mind and save your soul!

Vaheguroo!

Game of love 385- WISE WORDS

WISE WORDS

💬 Stay away from Anger.. 
It hurts ..Only You! 

💬 If you are right then there is no need to get angry, 

💬 And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry. 

💬 Patience with family is love,

💬 Patience with others is respect. 

💬 Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith. 

💬 Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears...

💬 Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear... 

💬 Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheer.

💬 Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,

💬 Every problem comes to make us or break us, 

💬 The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious.

💬 Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful

💬 Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? 

💬 So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those gaps by holding your hand forever.

💬 Happiness keeps You Sweet..But being sweet brings happiness.

If we are faithful and sincere to Guru Ji, they will guide us through this life and the hereafter by holding our hand. Guru Sahib Ji will fill and become the forever lasting gaps between our fingers. Wisdom is only attained through Creating an open and relaxed mind through meditation. 

"Through the spiritual wisdom of Naam (Vaheguroo, God), the Gurmukh (Guru follower) is liberated." Guru Amardas Ji. 

Vaheguroo!